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Internal family systems therapy is based on the idea that we all have different “parts” within us. These parts often develop as ways of helping us cope with difficult experiences, relationships, or emotions. Sometimes, however, these parts can become stuck in patterns that create distress, anxiety, low mood, or relationship difficulties.

In internal family systems therapy, we gently explore your thoughts, feelings, and life experiences, both past and present to better understand these different parts of your inner world. We work at a safe and manageable pace to help you notice how certain emotions, beliefs, or reactions may be connected to earlier experiences.

As internal family systems therapy progresses, we often begin to uncover and understand parts of you that may hold painful memories, unmet needs, or strong emotions that have been pushed aside or protected over time.

By bringing compassionate attention and understanding to these experiences, many people find that these parts begin to feel less overwhelming or controlling.

Over time, this process helps reduce the influence that past experiences may have on your current mood, behaviour, and relationships. The aim of internal family systems therapy is to support a deeper sense of self-understanding, emotional balance, and lasting change.

If you are considering internal family systems therapy and would like to explore whether it feels right for you, you are welcome to get in touch.

It can be difficult to know at the beginning exactly how long therapy will last, as everyone’s experiences, goals, and pace of change are different.

At the start of our work together, we will talk about what you hope to gain from therapy and consider a realistic timeframe. We will also review progress together at regular intervals to make sure therapy continues to feel helpful and aligned with your needs.

Many people begin to notice positive shifts earlier on, but meaningful and lasting change often takes time. For deeper therapeutic work, internal family systems therapy commonly involves a commitment of anywhere between around 6 months and 3 years.

Our aim is always to support improvement as early as possible, while working at a pace that feels safe, steady, and sustainable for you.

I aim to create a therapeutic space that feels relaxed, welcoming, and safe. I’m a relational therapist and I value therapy feeling different from a clinical or medical environment. Many people worry that therapy might feel formal, intimidating, or uncomfortable, and I work intentionally to create a space where you can feel at ease being yourself.

Sessions are guided by you. You’re welcome to bring whatever feels most important, whether that’s something current, something from your past, or simply how you’re feeling in the moment. My role is to listen carefully, support exploration, and gently help you understand patterns, emotions, and experiences that may be affecting you.

I often work with people who are highly sensitive, empathic, thoughtful, and deeply attuned to others. Many of my clients identify as Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) and may find themselves naturally caring for others’ needs, sometimes at the expense of their own.

Clients I work with frequently notice patterns such as people pleasing, over-extending themselves, over-functioning in relationships, or finding it difficult to set and maintain boundaries. Over time, these patterns can contribute to experiences of anxiety, depression, burnout, or feeling emotionally overwhelmed or responsible for others’ wellbeing.

I also work with many people who have experienced complex or developmental trauma, particularly those who grew up in environments where emotional safety, consistency, or understanding may have been limited. These early experiences can often shape how someone relates to themselves and others in adulthood.

My work often focuses on supporting Highly Sensitive People who are working through the impact of complex trauma, helping them develop healthier boundaries, reconnect with their own needs, and build more balanced and fulfilling relationships.

I support clients with a range of emotional and psychological difficulties, particularly those connected to trauma, relational patterns, and emotional overwhelm.

Some of the experiences clients commonly bring include:

• Anxiety and chronic worry

• Low mood or depression

• Burnout and emotional exhaustion

• Difficulties with boundaries and people pleasing

• Relationship and attachment difficulties

• Low self-worth or harsh self-criticism

• Feeling overwhelmed by emotions

• Patterns of over-functioning or feeling responsible for others

• Effects of complex or developmental trauma

• Difficulties linked to childhood emotional neglect or inconsistent caregiving

• Feeling stuck in repeated life or relationship patterns

• Emotional abuse

Although it can feel natural to want to go straight to your inner child parts, this can sometimes cause overwhelm or re-traumatisation. In online internal family systems therapy, it’s important to first build safety and get to know your protective parts, the parts of you that are trying to keep you safe.

Working through resistance and protective patterns gradually helps create a sense of stability and safety in your nervous system. With the support of a skilled therapist, you can approach painful emotions and inner child work safely, at a pace that feels manageable, so healing becomes possible without feeling overwhelmed.

During consultation, you’ll be asked about reasons for seeking therapy with brief information about the presentations you’re struggling with to determine if I am a right fit for your needs. I will talk through my style and approach to therapy and guide you through how to book your first appointment.

It’s completely natural to wonder if therapy works as well online as it does in person. The good news is that internal family systems therapy offers online sessions and it is highly effective. Internal Family Systems therapy (IFS) is designed to work with both the mind and body, and many of its core techniques can be fully achieved through a secure online setting.

Through online sessions, we use body-focused approaches, including gentle awareness of physical sensations, meditative techniques, and psychotherapeutic methods to connect with your inner parts. We also incorporate guided visualisations and imagery, helping you safely explore, understand, and support the protective parts of yourself that hold emotions and memories.

Many people find that the online format actually enhances accessibility and comfort, allowing them to feel safe and grounded in their own environment while engaging deeply with the process. The therapeutic experience including emotional release, nervous system regulation, and inner healing can be just as profound online as in person.