detach and DISCERN

Why do unavailable people make us want them more?

When someone becomes distant, our minds fill the gap with potential. imagining who they could be, rather than seeing who they are. This retreat is about turning toward relational discernment instead: meeting the anxious, ruminating, fixing parts of us with Self energy, and building the clarity to let go.

This retreat is about turning away from potential and toward relational discernment. The practice of reflecting honestly on someone’s patterns, and what they actually show us about their capacity and compatibility.

Through somatic yoga and IFS, we’ll work directly with the parts of us that drive this cycle: the part that feels anxious, the part that ruminates, the part that holds onto potential, the part that sees through rose-coloured glasses, and the part that tries to fix others so it doesn’t have to feel the loss. We meet each one with Self energy so we develop clarity to let go of relationships that drain our energy.

ACTIVITES

Somatic yoga and IFS sessions to help you meet these parts with Self energy, and build clarity. One of the 8 C’s of Self.